During the past years I have talked to the old - young and little boys. Still on my mission I went on to talk to the old – young and little girls! Put simply, I saw myself interacting with all members of the human race. Interestingly thought, most of these people would listen attentively, with vested interest as I share my experiences.
My presentations during those sessions focused on sexuality matters. How do you then, talk about bedroom topic without getting your audience hot? I have on several occasions’ witnessed quite a few individuals’ curiosity stretched to the extreme. Because I am not known for playing basketball spiced with condoms!
Keep to one partner! Be faithful! Abstain! and most of all Masturbate were simply a vocabulary for AIDS activists. I was known as a recreational activist to say the least. Well, in my heart of hearts I was already an activist. I was all concern about the level of infections especially among the youth sector of our country.
This afternoon, I feel more privileged because I am afforded a rare opportunity of talking to my peers. Some of you will sure shape the landscape of this country. You are future leaders, anyway I hope you, as ambassadors would take it upon yourself to share this sexy message with your peers.
I would first like to focus our attention on condoms for reasons better known to us all. Safe Sex Saves Lives! Condoms can be used in different environments. In case you don’t believe me. Try slipping one during masturbation – you will feel the magic. Carry one for your sister or brother, just in case they get a little bit closer to their partners.
You will definitely need condoms for protecting yourself and your partner. In case you feel like playing with yourself condoms are also useful. How safe then are condoms? They are known as barrier for the prevention of pregnancy. Condoms need to be used correctly though. They are very essential in preventing sexually transmitted diseases, as well as HIV/AIDS of course.
Note dozen lovers, immediately after exciting themselves. Simply jump onto the bed, without rolling the condom properly. They get overwhelmed at this point in time. And guess what?… As the poor couples, lovers puff and huff. The likelihood of during condom breakage is possible. What do you do, do you take out your wily. A lot of people will tell you – they normally decided to let loose and shoot.
Lo and behold that on its own is not the pathway to take. You risk infection and at worst pregnancy.
How many of you would have the courage of stopping when the sperms are singing, dancing and rearing to go! Imagine the sensation. Chances are most if not lots of us risk getting pregnant. And worst still exposed us to sexually transmitted infection as well as HIV/AIDS.
So prevention is better than cure – Examine whether you ready to indulge in sexual encounter. In general you could play soccer, study and do whatever, sex will always be there.
For those of you who are already sexually active use condoms, for those of you still untouched stay the same
What does keeping to one partner mean to you? Does it mean loving Linda for two days and moving to Tiny the following day because she has jilted you? Is keeping to one partner feasible, an illusion or just an ideal dream?
Behaviour change comes from within, you need to love yourself first and discover who you are. Nowadays unfortunately sex is glorified. Status and success equals sexy. Sexy means jumping onto bed with different partners.
The world tends to castigate you if monogamous. You become an instant hero if you sleep around. Quite frankly, I guarantee you, men and women who are stable in their relationship wear derogatory labels. Isishimane, ke le fitwa that is how they are profiled. A sad indictment considering the incidences of HIV/AIDS.
When all is said sex has become one of the most sought after commodity. In the street of the city you buy it like a soft drink. Even an ad that sells perishables uses semi-clad women’s. Effectively, we need to keep to one partner. That partner should be you my dear. Have as many friends but remember no sleeping partners
This brings me to the issue that is so close to all of us abstinence. We are told in places of worship to abstain, at school that message is also emphasized, this line in repeated in all walks of life. On the one hand kids would argue and advance all sorts of arguments.
It is common to listen to thirteen-year-old on talk show sighting their hormones as urging them to go for it. This arguments flies in the face of a barrage of cry for a moral degeneration. How do we instill and inculcate culture abstinence?
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